Men..

I've been reading her blog for more than a year already. Got to know about it through another gf's blog. Love her creativity and her talent, totally.

Her pictures really say a thousand words, with a couple of words here and there and voila! You will know what she's trying to convey plus her drawings are soooooooooooo cutesy and adorable! :P

She (her drawings) was my inspiration when i did my gf's wedding slide show in May last year. Grin. I know i know.. i promised to upload it to my blog but i dunno how! *hide*

I tried using slide.com but goodness, it was sooooo slow! After more than an hour working on it, i gave up. So yeah.. i enjoy her blog tremendously :)

Then a couple of days ago, i came across this entry of hers. Interesting. Very true too (applicable to most of the relationships but not ALL). And then..

Me, the butt itchy wife decided to test the husband with it. LOL ^.^

Even though i KNOW what is in for me if i do. After knowing hb for 8 years, how can i not know right?

So, on 1 fateful Friday night, which was 2 nights ago when we were hanging out at Borders during supper time..

me : pa (yes, i call him THAT :P) , u know i saw this blogger's entry the other day, so cute leh! She drew .. (the drawings were explained). Now now, i wanna eat donuts from Donuts Factory tomorrow okay? Can you buy for me?
hb : wah.. look at this book! Web design for Stoopidss (Dummies).. U should get it.
me : oi. Talking to u ah!
hb : wah.. another web design book. Wanna buy? Then you can design your own webbie.
me : Duwan.. i want donuts!
hb : i'm working tomorrow..
me : after that lor
hb : after that going home
me : after going home lor
hb : not free lah
me : cheh..

Da di da.. exactly what i've expected. Honestly, i wasn't upset at all. Because that was expected. I wasn't even disappointed too. Not even a teeny weeny bit.

Then yesterday's morning after our brunch, hb brought me to Suntec to get some stuff. We parted our ways usual upon reaching.. until we are both done then meet up again to go home.

As we were going back, hb pointed out to the Carrefour's donuts which has 0 people q-ing, turning to me and asked -

hb: u want donuts right? I go get for you. How many do you want?'
me : duwan. I duwan Carrefour's donuts. Already tried 2 weeks back. Not nice. I want Donuts Factory's donuts only
(we continued on walking.. to the car park, which is just below)
hb : seriously, i don't understand what's the craze about. It's not that fantastic also. Why like it that much? Furthermore, q for so long just for something that is not so nice? (hb's not a fan of donuts)
(was reaching the car soon)
me : the point now is q-ing for me, buying it for me and not thinking so much into it because it's for me, not....

Before i could finish my sentence, i spotted this on my seat, the passenger seat.



Grin.

Yeah, the cat got my tongue.

I was like.. OH MY GOD! (said this out loud) Hb bought it!! For me!!!!

Hahahaa.. :D

I was so so so shocked. Really so so so so so shocked. I have never expected it at all. Not in this life of mine. And not even in my dream for Pete's sakes, knowing the very impatient husband well enough :P

It was a pleasant surprise. The surprise is as good as giving me a Tiffany's 1-carat diamond ring. Grin. So some brownie points he scores he did. I'm very sure hb was pretty glad/happy himself too.. heh, for seeing that priceless expression on my face :PppP

Turned out that hb bought 2 boxes, 6 in each. Wah.. bliss!

Hb didn't know what topping is nice and totally clueless on my favs too, so to play safe, it's all chocolates and nuts

When we reached home, i ate like there is no tomorrow! Lol.

I know i wont q for them myself, no matter how bad i crave them. The first time i had them was when they just opened, during the first week. No qs and of course, the media + peeps haven't discovered it yet... That, was my first time.

Then the second time which was also my last time was last month, during a relative's party. They bought in bulk, almost. So, i had like 4-5 at 1 go!

And till today, this is my 3rd time eating them. That's why i chosed to eat like there's no tomorrow because i know it'd be my very last time. Hahaha.. (the diet WILL wait). I doubt hb will buy it again for me and i wont buy them myself too, unless there isn't any q.. which is highly unlikely.

So hmm.. yeah, after 8 years of marriage, there will still be surprises. But it happens only once in a blue moon. (i know what hb will say about this sentence! If i didn't write this part, he's gonna come home and tell me that it needs to happen only once in a blue moon! Else no special already if happens every other day.. )

Men.. o.<

Note to the husband :

for this sentence -> The surprise is as good as giving me a Tiffany's 1-carat diamond ring doesn't mean that i will always accept the donuts in replace for diamond ring hor! The sentence is only applicable for 1 time use ONLY.. :Pp

From the guilty party

A felon sent me this yesterday for his cannot-be-so-easily-forgiven-negligence..



But it's not enough!

I want more..

Some ideas for the felon to execute :

. a secretly planned holiday
. a secretly planned romantic dinner for 2
. a secretly planned paintball excursion for a group
. pasting love notes all over the house when i'm in deep slumber at night
. cook brunch for me on Sunday!
. fly me to Melbourne in July for it (it's playing there next)

Hmm.. that's all i could think of in this 2 mins timespan :P

Shady shades..

Finally... I have it!

Been lemming for this Coach shades for 2 weeks already. Ever since my sister from Taiwan came to visit me 2 weeks ago and bought herself one, i've been wanting it so badly. But the price tag really puts me off.

This is my second designer shades. The first was Gucci, given by my then bf, now hb on our 2nd day into the very new relationship. Unfortunately, the Gucci was broken into 2 by my second boy and it couldn't be fixed anymore. That was almost 3 years ago.

When i told hb of my new lemming or rather, kept repeating of my new lemming, hb pretended not to hear anything *kabish*. Then 3 days ago, he brought me there himself, after seeing me getting all dressed up for it. Hahaha.. i knew he'd buy for me, albeit he said he wouldn't to my sister! :P

I know i know.. i've said about me not owning any branded goods but sunglasses is different ok? Grin. At least, to hb it is.. because it's to protect my eyes. So cannot buy cheap cheap ones that don't have 100% UV protection.

My lovely shades.. :D

Coach

Check out the butterfly diamantes!

I love love love it.. Sooo gorgeous!

All along, i wanted another Gucci but unfortunately, Gucci's frames don't fit me anymore. They are all too small for my face [their width that is]. I'm glad i didn't buy one just for the sake of buying one when hb asked me to. Else i'll really go bang my head. Heh.

Coach's frames fit like a glove. No adjustment is needed. Simply puuuurrfeecctt!

I'm really on cloud9.. :D

Gip gip, ngo oi lei!

Me a child?

Guess who was the most excited one when this got unwrapped?



From the subject of this entry, it's not hard to guess aye? :P

Yup, it was me and it wasn't even my present!

My bestie gave this to one of my boys as their birthday presents last month. Guess the sight of it brought me down the memory lane. My sisters and i love playing Checkers. That was almost 1.5 decade ago.

So yeah, when i first saw the board game, i was even more excited than the boys! Lol. Some mother i am! Grin.

OT : u know, i was also the most excited one when it comes to opening the X'mas presents, according to most of the eye witnesses who saw me in action. Almost like a child, an old one that is *blush*

Anyway, back to the board game subject.

Guess who was the victim whom got forced into playing with me??

Yep yep, none other than the husband, who should feel very honoured ok! Afterall, i'm sharing my childhood memories with him :P

That very night itself, both of us and the game on the bed. And guess again, who won the first and only round so far?

ME! Lol.

During the start of the game, i was so convinced i was gonna lose and even voiced out to hb that i got tricked by him but surprise surprise, i beat hb hands down and nope, i didn't cheat! Hb died until very ugly.. Haha.

Next up, Snakes and Ladders. Yay!

.What did i do?

.Did i deserve that?

These were the questions that i've been asking myself since last night, all the way to 5am in the morning but unfortunately, i didn't manage to get an answer.

You see, lately the husband has been having weird mood swing, twice in a short 1 week span. Something similiar which happened to a person's husband who is extremely close to me. Perhaps i should have heeded the old folk's advise. Never divulge other husbands' bad habits/acts/attitude to your own husband. Without realising it, they might 'follow' as well. My bad..

Don't get me wrong though.

Most of the time, we are a very loving couple. We've been through lots of ups and downs but we survived them all. We still do the normal thang that couples do despite having 3 children already.

We date almost every Saturday night. We still love to tease each other mercilessly. We wrestle (is that normal? :P) and i'm still trying my very best to flip the husband over but always, get pushed to the bed instead before trying again. We love spending time together, just the both of us whenever and wherever we can. In another word, we are still very much in love and the flame is definitely still burning.

Anyway, what happened was the husband went into a cold and quiet mode during the mood swing. I got ignored. He didn't hold even my hands when we were crossing the road in town last night albeit he wasn't angry with me. Of course i got angry lah. Err wait, do i sound very small gas?? :P

After a while, on the ride back home, hubby tried talking to me normally and even teased me by pinching my nose playfully etc but i barked back. Then it was back to the starting point again.

EH? o . O

After writting this out, sounds like i'm the small gas one, no? It wasn't supposed to turn out this way! Lol.

But you know what? I don't even get mood swings! How come hubby does?? *roll eyes*

Maybe because hubby can be considered my first love, hence, i have no idea what to expect of them [men]. Hmm.. maybe it's time to read up Men from Mars, Women from Venus? Okay okay, i'm really blowing this up. Grin. Before you know it, we'll be ok again ah :D

Somehow, by writting out, i can see a clearer picture? A picture which indicates that i'm indeed a small gas wife instead of the husband is the bad man who needs whacking with my rotan.