Icing on the cake..

To me, being married is the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me.

And the best part of it?

To have someone sleeping next to you every night.. someone who you will feel safe and protected with, someone who will hold your hands while sleeping through the night, someone who you can cuddle and nuzzle before and in the midst of sleeping, someone who will bid you goodnight with a kiss, someone who will be there to listen after having horrible nightmare and list goes on...

So, can you imagine when you are being deprived of all that when that someone goes else where to sleep because the fan was too strong for his comfort? *boo-hoo*

I am someone who need to be loved and show affection all the time despite my marital status and the number of kids i have or will have. In another word, i am a very high maintenance girl when it comes to love.

Pppssstt: hb's collegue once wished him luck after our firstborn came out because according to him, i will now be neglecting hb and concentrate my love and care on the baby instead like most women did after they have babies. I guess i'm simply one of the kind? Lucky hb or unlucky hb? :P

Yes, you may argue that as long as things are okie, he treats you right, love and care for you all the same, sleeping together or not doesn't make a different!

But that is so not true, well, at least, to me, it's not..

No matter what happens, at the end of the day, a couple needs to sleep together.. even when fighting. These days, whenever i think of the wise words that have been told by mil, i realised that as i'm growing older, i do find truths in what she says.

Last time, i'll just 'smile' it off. Not just about sleeping together but other stuffs concerning men too. Afterall, she has eaten more salt than i have on rice.. *grin*

I think sleeping together (no, not that sleeping together, you ham sups out there) is the most intimate gesture that a couple can do (provided that you are cuddling or holding hands that is) and without fail, i look forward to it every day..

I dislike sleeping alone. Period.

*ham sup = perverts